While sexually transmitted diseases and infections are spread more commonly than thought, many people don’t talk about them because they don’t know they have one.

“You can’t tell by looking who has an STD. Many STDs cause no symptoms, so the only way to know is to get tested,” Area Services Manager of Planned Parenthood Spokane and Pullman, Frances Jones said, “For example, 75 percent of women and 50 percent of men with chlamydia have no signs.”

Staying protected against STDs/STIs by practicing safe sex is important, but so is protecting others by openly communicating about STDs/STIs and getting tested.

When telling someone about having a sexually transmitted disease or infection, know the facts first. Conversations will be much easier on both parties as it minimizes any worry or uncertainty.

Most STDs, including HIV, are treatable and many are curable, Jones said.

“Choose a time where you have their undivided attention and don’t have to rush what you’re saying,” Jones said, “Choose your words appropriately and prepare for different reactions.”

Make sure to inform a partner that they are at risk of being infected and encourage them to get tested as well.

“The sooner you know your status, the sooner you can get treated,” Jones said, “Early treatment can help prevent serious health problems that can result from untreated STDs.”

When hearing that a past, present, or future sexual partner has a sexually transmitted disease, “I” statements and neutral, calm tones are a way to let them know that they can trust you, Jones said.

Everyone reacts differently, which makes open communication between both parties is so important.

“One in two sexually active young people in the U.S. will contract an STD by the time they’re 25,” Jones said, “and most won’t know it.”

As well as testing and treatment services available at the Health and Wellness Center, Planned Parenthood’s Pullman Health Center offers completely confidential services including STD testing, STD treatment and the partner treatment program, complimentary condoms, low-priced over-the-counter emergency contraception, and birth control by appointment.

Resources and more information can be found on-campus at the Health and Wellness Center, off-campus at Planned Parenthood on King Drive, or on their respective websites.